Divorce

ReDefined

Experiences

Explore the options and stages of assistance available for your divorce journey.

Choose Your Stage

Click an option to learn more and decide which experience is for you.

Individual Support

Joint Support

STAGE 01 - CONTEMPLATION

The Decision

Is for you if...

• Are you stuck in that place of “indecision purgatory” trying to figure out whether your marriage is too good to leave or too bad to stay? 
• Have you been thinking about divorce for a while? Months maybe even years but too afraid to make a decision?
• Have you been to marriage counselling but it just didn’t help? Or have you gotten to the point where you don’t even want to go to counselling because you are so checked out?
• Are there things that have happened in your marriage that you just can't get past or behaviour that just isn’t changing?
• Are you afraid of the impact divorce will have on your kids?
• Do you worry about finances and how you are going to afford your life if you left?
• Do you wonder if you have tried everything you possibly could?
• Do you care about your spouse but are just not in love with them anymore?
• Do you often wonder if this is as good as it gets?
• Would you just like help once and for all to determine the direction of your marriage/relationship and gaining clarity and confidence around next steps no matter which direction you choose?

STAGE 02 - PREPARATION & NAVIGATION

The Journey

Is for you if...

• Divorce is imminent whether you chose it or not it is happening and you have no idea what to do first.
• You are so overwhelmed by even the thought of all the things you have to do and face and prepare not to mention how you have no idea what your life is going to look like from here.
• You have heard about the many horror stories of divorce and how expensive and emotional devastating it can be and you don't want that to happen to you.
• Dealing with lawyers is overwhelming and confusing and you want to make sure you choose the right one.
• Your finances are confusing and you might not even have access to it all so aren’t sure who to go about that.
• You want to make sure the kids best interests are taken into account and you realize that they are going to need to be considered as a priority right now.
• There is so much anger, pain and conflict you don’t know how in the world you are going to get through this gently without all out war.
• You want to make sure all your “is” are dotted and “t’s are crossed in your separation agreement and parenting plan BEFORE signing.
• You want to make sure you have thought of EVERYTHING.

MINI JOURNEY OPTION AVAILABLE  

This option is for those who have started the process already, have done some of the initial leg work, have already retained a lawyer and maybe have even been to mediation yet things are not progressing effectively and too much money is being spent on lawyers.  This strategic support option provides further direction with most of the perks of the full Journey Option but with half the time commitment.

STAGE 03 - TRANSFORMATION

The Afterlife

Is for you if you want to...

• Gain YOUR LIFE BACK!
• Get UNSTUCK.
• Move on and finally become emotionally divorced.
• Become a Boundary Badass.
• Have a Self Love & ReNewed Mindset.
• Practice Healthy & Effective Communication Skills.
• ReDefine a Future Vision & Set New Goals.
• Prepare for a New Relationship Yourself.
• Know how to handle When Your Ex starts a Relationship.