I Think I Want a Divorce... 

 

But how do I know for sure?

 

Join us for weekly guided group coaching support focussed on helping you determine if your relationship is "too good to leave or not good enough to stay."

***Fall Intake runs EVERY THURSDAY until December 21st - the EARLIER you join the more support, the more coaching and the more value you get!**
LIVE calls 10:30am PST / 1:30pm EST
IS DIVORCE WHAT I REALLY WANT?

Is your mind often consumed by wondering about the future of your relationship?

 

  • Are you worried about everything you might lose if you separate from your spouse, fearing the loss of companionship, lifestyle and family unit you've known and built all these years?
  • Do you fear what your financial situation will look like and wonder how you'll manage on your own and support your children?
  • Are you afraid that you might make the wrong choice and regret it later?
  • Are you terrified of the potential impact divorce could have on your children?
  • Do you feel anxious, almost sick to your stomach about navigating the complex legal process and the possibility of a drawn-out, very expensive legal battle?
  • Do you worry about what everyone else is going to think if you do want a divorce? Friends, family, your kids, society in general?
  • Do you already feel like you are on a rollercoaster of emotion: confusion, grief, anger, sadness, resentment, depression, even numbness as you try to sort out how you actually feel?
  • Does the idea of starting a new in life give you anxiety but also feels exciting at the same time?
  • Are you worried about being blamed for everything and seen as the one who "broke up" the family?
  • Are you worried about disrupting your routines and the possibility of being isolated from your kids, your family or your friends?
  • Do you don't know enough to handle the legal and financial aspects because that part is so unclear and overwhelming? 
  • Are you worried that your lifestyle might change especially if you rely on your spouse financially right now?
  • Do you worry about being alone for the rest of your life if you left? 

**Fall Intake runs EVERY THURSDAY until December 21st - the EARLIER you join the more support, the more coaching and the more value you get!**
LIVE calls 10:30am PST / 1:30pm EST

How do I know if divorce is the right decision?

 

  • Are you worried about everything you might lose if you separate from your spouse, fearing the loss of companionship, lifestyle and family unit you've known and built all these years?

 

  • Do you fear what your financial situation will look like and wonder how you'll manage on your own and support your children?

 

  • Are you afraid that you might make the wrong choice and regret it later?

 

  • Are you terrified of the potential impact divorce could have on your children?

 

  • Do you feel anxious, almost sick to your stomach about navigating the complex legal process and the possibility of a drawn-out, very expensive legal battle?

 

  • Do you worry about what everyone else is going to think if you do want a divorce? Friends, family, your kids, society in general?

 

  • Do you already feel like you are on a rollercoaster of emotion: confusion, grief, anger, sadness, resentment, depression, even numbness as you try to sort out how you actually feel?

 

  • Does the idea of starting a new in life give you anxiety but also feels exciting at the same time?

 

  • Are you worried about being blamed for everything and seen as the one who "broke up" the family?

 

  • Are you worried about disrupting your routines and the possibility of being isolated from your kids, your family or your friends?

 

  • Do you don't know enough to handle the legal and financial aspects because that part is so unclear and overwhelming? 

 

  • Are you worried that your lifestyle might change especially if you rely on your spouse financially right now?

 

  • Do you worry about being alone for the rest of your life if you left?

What if you could put an end to the fear and uncertainty you are feeling?

 

The one thing we know for sure is you deserve the happiness you are looking for. Over the next 12 weeks you will find that....

 

If it’s best for you to stay in your relationship...

  • you will feel satisfied knowing which issues you need to face and the first steps to fixing them.
  • you won’t be settling.
  • you will discover that your relationship is truly too good to leave.
  • you’ll know your heart is at home.

 

If you feel that leaving is best, you will find...

  • the reassurance that finally comes from understanding why your relationship is not the right place for you anymore.
  • that when you end a relationship that deserves to end, you are liberating two people to move on to better lives.

 

In this unique 12-week group coaching experience, you will see what’s best for you; no matter what path you choose.

 

One promise I can make is that you will feel happier than you’ve felt in a long time.

 

This group experience is designed to help you make this happen. 

What if you could put an end to the fear and uncertainty you are feeling?

 

The one thing we know for sure is you deserve the happiness you are looking for. Over the next 12 weeks you will find that....

 

If it’s best for you to stay in your relationship...

  • you will feel satisfied knowing which issues you need to face and the first steps to fixing them.
  • you won’t be settling.
  • you will discover that your relationship is truly too good to leave.
  • you’ll know your heart is at home.

 

If you feel that leaving is best, you will find...

  • the reassurance that finally comes from understanding why your relationship is not the right place for you anymore
  • that when you end a relationship that deserves to end, you are liberating two people to move on to better lives

 

In this unique 12-week group coaching experience, you will see what’s best for you; no matter what path you choose.

 

One promise I can make is that you will feel happier than you’ve felt in a long time.

 

This group experience is designed to help you make this happen. 

Over 40% of people in long-term relationships have considered leaving their partner at least once.

According to Psychology Today

Are you one of them?

You feel stuck.

 

When you’re feeling uncertain about your relationship, you can expect to experience both positive and negative emotions toward your partner at the same time. 

These confusing emotions can impact your physical and emotional well-being and the quality of your life. 

The stress, the guilt and the fear of the unknown make it extremely difficult to make a concrete decision about the future of your relationship.

You have so many doubts.

Is this a sign that your relationship has run its course?

And if so, what happens next?

OR

Can you overcome the ambivalence and nurture the relationship so it can flourish again?

And if so, how?

Here you will find out. 

I was stuck in uncertainty for the last 5 years of my 22 year relationship... 

 

I get how you are feeling right now because I was you.

I felt trapped in a marriage that appeared perfect on the outside but left me feeling empty and alone on the inside.

The yearning for emotional connection and the uncertainty I felt took a massive toll on me.

I was desperate for change, but at the same time I was terrified of the unknown that would come if I were to walk away from what took us 22 years to build.

I was a stay-at-home mom without access to finances and I had a sneaking suspicion my husband was a covert narcissist, but I didn't know how to prove it... 

For five long years, I felt stuck.

I covered up all of his indiscretions to protect him and the family, I used alcohol more and more to cope and numb my pain and resentment, I took my kids for granted, I surrounded myself with people who couldn't see my struggle, I made several attempts to get us marriage counselling which were repeatedly shutdown, I tried everything to avoid facing the obvious… including having an affair of my own in the end...

My marriage and my entire being was in shambles.

I desperately needed help, but who?

Therapists didn't provide immediate, tangible ways to determine if my marriage was fixable and ways I could get my spouse on board.

Lawyers were aggressive and focused their efforts on building walls, ending things and setting the stage for a long, expensive battle.

Friends worried I was making the wrong decision.

Who could help me DECIDE what was right for me?

That’s why I created…

The Decision Group Coaching Experience

This weekly group coaching EXPERIENCE is designed give you the guidance and support you need to help get you unstuck.

 

Whether you want to stay in your relationship and give it all you’ve got

OR

Whether it’s time to liberate two people to live new chapters on their own terms

 

This experience is designed to help get you clear about what you truly want.

By staying where you are you are choosing to stay stuck.

Is that what you really want? Is this really how you want to feel?

I WANT TO GET UNSTUCK

What you can expect in the 12 weeks... 

YOU ReDefined

Many of us lose our sense of self and personal identity in a long-term relationship or marriage.

Weeks 1-4 focus on:

  • who you really are,
  • your unique approach to love and marriage
  • your values, dreams, goals and needs
  • the beliefs shaping your perspective on relationships and divorce

Your RELATIONSHIP

Weeks 5-7 are all about:

  • taking a relationship inventory and diagnostic measures to understand your relationship better
  • uncovering the reasons behind your uncertainty 
  • discovering your relationship for what it really is
  • identifying what is really going on

The COMMUNICATION Culprits

Communication is the one thing that can strengthen your bond, and help you navigate tough times smoothly, but it can also cause a lot of damage and distrust when done poorly.

Weeks 8 to 10 we're diving into...

  • The 4 Marriage Destroyers that lead to relationship breakdown 
  • How to get your needs met

The DECISION Dilemma

Everything you've been working on comes together here to guide you towards the decision that's best for you. By now, you will have a much clearer idea about whether your relationship can be repaired or if it's time to go separate ways.

Week 11, you’ll get...

  • my 4-step process to Conquering the 4 Villains in the way of making good decisions

The "TALK"

No matter what choice you make, you are still going to need to have some pretty important and hard conversations with your partner.

In Week 12, we cover...

  • a compassionate and highly effective approach to having the hard conversations
  • what to say, when to say it, how to say it and where 
  • what NOT to say
  • restoring your inner balance

Do you want to recommit to your relationship?

Do you want to recommit to your relationship? 

OR

Or do you want to start preparing a new chapter?

Do you want to prepare to start a new chapter in your life?

Here's how this works...

12 LIVE GROUP COACHING CALLS

Weekly group coaching calls where you get the chance to actively engage in open conversations and connect with others who share your experience.

Option to ADD-ON PRIVATE 1:1 COACHING WITH ME

 Add-on private 1-1 coaching sessions as needed for more tailored support based on your unique situation

(75 min, $395)

ULTIMATE SUPPORT IN A SAFE SPACE

 You’re not alone. You’ll be surrounded by a community of like-minded people who understand, empathize and relate to what you are going through because they are, too. 

PROVEN EXERCISES AND STRATEGIES

Insights and knowledge that can be put into practice immediately

LIFETIME ACCESS TO ALL RESOURCES

Resources you can come back to any time you need help or feel stuck.

ENROLL NOW

Here's how it works:

12 LIVE GROUP COACHING CALLS

Weekly group coaching calls where you get the chance to actively engage in open conversations and connect with others who share your experience.

ADD-ON PRIVATE 1:1 COACHING

Add-on private 1-1 coaching sessions as needed for more tailored support based on your unique situation

(75 min, $395)

ULTIMATE SUPPORT IN A SAFE SPACE

You’re not alone. You’ll be surrounded by a community of like-minded people who understand, empathize and relate to what you are going through because they are, too. 

PROVEN EXERCISES AND STRATEGIES

 Insights and knowledge that can be put into practice immediately.

LIFETIME ACCESS TO ALL RESOURCES

Resources you can come back to any time you need help or feel stuck.

JOIN US

Client Love Letters

"Before enrolling in the Decision Experience, I felt completely lost and trapped in my failing marriage. The uncertainty and fear of making the wrong decision were consuming me. Thanks to Cindy’s guidance and support, I found clarity and understanding of my needs and desires. Today, I can proudly say that I have made a decision that aligns with who I am and what I want, and my marriage has become stronger because of it."

- Parveet

"I can't emphasize enough how the Decision Experience changed my life. I was stuck in a marriage filled with doubt and unhappiness, and I knew I needed to find the strength to end it. Cindy provided invaluable insights, guiding me through a methodical process to delve deep into my emotions and desires. Cindy encouraged me to face the hard truth and helped me come to terms with my decision to leave. I found the courage to have that difficult conversation with my wife, knowing with certainty that ending the relationship was the right decision for my future. Thanks to this program I feel much happier in my life and have even found a new relationship.”

- Alan

"Before enrolling in the Decision Experience, I felt completely lost and trapped in my failing marriage. The uncertainty and fear of making the wrong decision were consuming me. Thanks to Cindy’s guidance and support, I found clarity and understanding of my needs and desires. Today, I can proudly say that I have made a decision that aligns with who I am and what I want, and my marriage has become stronger because of it."

- Parveet

"I can't emphasize enough how the Decision Experience changed my life. I was stuck in a marriage filled with doubt and unhappiness, and I knew I needed to find the strength to end it. Cindy provided invaluable insights, guiding me through a methodical process to delve deep into my emotions and desires. Cindy encouraged me to face the hard truth and helped me come to terms with my decision to leave. I found the courage to have that difficult conversation with my wife, knowing with certainty that ending the relationship was the right decision for my future. Thanks to this program I feel much happier in my life and have even found a new relationship.”

- Alan

This is for you if…

  • You have been thinking about leaving, but the fear of making the wrong decision and facing the unknown keeps you stuck. 

 

  • You’re already leaning towards a decision but want to understand what went wrong and how you can approach this in the right way.

 

  • Your partner is unsure about you, and you want to find out whether or not your relationship can be saved.

 

  • You’re willing to work on yourself and make the right decision with confidence and compassion.

 

  • You’re tired of being just a "roommate" and want a chance to be happier and create a life you love.

 

This is NOT for you if…

  • You’re not willing to invest time, energy, or effort into your love life and don’t want to understand your own emotions.
  • You believe that love alone is enough for happiness, fulfillment, and respect to find their way back into your relationship.
  • You want me to wave a magic wand and make the decision for you. I can’t tell you what to do, but I can tell you what I know.

  • You’re convinced that your relationship uncertainty is solely your partner’s fault and that they’re the only problem.

  • You expect this to be a walk in the park and a quick fix. This program is designed to help you make a decision about your relationship’s future. That shouldn’t be taken lightly.

  • You’re not willing to invest time, energy, or effort into your love life and don’t want to understand your own emotions.
  • You believe that love alone is enough for happiness, fulfillment, and respect to find their way back into your relationship.
  • You want me to wave a magic wand and make the decision for you. I can’t tell you what to do, but I can tell you what I know.

  • You’re convinced that your relationship uncertainty is solely your partner’s fault and that they’re the only problem.

  • You expect this to be a walk in the park and a quick fix. This program is designed to help you make a decision about the future of your relationship. That shouldn’t be taken lightly.

Make The Decision Experience 

YOUR Experience

  • Weekly live group coaching calls (Value $2500)
  • Step-by-step decision-making process with powerful exercises and proven strategies (Value $500)
  • Lifetime access to all the resources and recordings 
  • An exclusive and supportive community within a secure and confidential space

  

Total Value of $2500


Join us for:

$597

SAVE $2000

 

**Fall Intake runs EVERY THURSDAY until December 21st - the EARLIER you join the more support, the more coaching and the more value you get!**
 

LIVE calls 10:30am PST / 1:30pm EST

JOIN US

More Client Love Letters

"I have to tell you, the Decision Experience Coaching program was a total game-changer for me! My marriage was like a sinking ship, and I had no clue what to do. But Cindy was like my angel! She helped me figure out my priorities and realize that I needed to leave for my own happiness and well-being. It wasn't easy, but with her support, I gained the courage to talk to my husband and begin separation but in a really gentle and loving way. And you know what? I felt so confident in my decision! It was really scary telling him what I wanted, but the moment I did, it was like this massive weight was lifted from my shoulders. Now I can finally move on and be true to myself and be a way better mother to my kids. This program rocks, seriously!"

- Sheryl

"I cannot express enough gratitude for the Decision Experience Coaching program. When I first started working with Cindy, my marriage was hanging by a thread, and I was desperate for answers. Her expertise and compassionate approach allowed me to confront my deepest fears and doubts head-on. With her guidance, I was able to reconnect with my husband on a deeper level and rediscover the love we once had. This program taught me to trust my intuition and make decisions from a place of strength rather than fear. Now, our marriage is back on track, and I am eternally grateful for the support that led me here." 

- Annie

"OMG, the Decision Experience was a total lifesaver! My marriage was like a bad rom-com, and I had to figure out if I should hit the exit button, you know what I mean? Cindy was awesome! She made me feel so comfortable, like chatting with a bestie, and helped me find the guts to end things with my spouse. And guess what? It was the right call, no regrets! Now, I'm feeling like a boss babe, taking charge of my life, and ready to embrace whatever comes my way. This program is the real deal!"

- Jill

"OMG, the Decision Experience was a total lifesaver! My marriage was like a bad rom-com, and I had to figure out if I should hit the exit button, you know what I mean? Cindy was awesome! She made me feel so comfortable, like chatting with a bestie, and helped me find the guts to end things with my spouse. And guess what? It was the right call, no regrets! Now, I'm feeling like a boss babe, taking charge of my life, and ready to embrace whatever comes my way. This program is the real deal!"

- Jill

"I cannot express enough gratitude for the Decision Experience Coaching program. When I first started working with Cindy, my marriage was hanging by a thread, and I was desperate for answers. Her expertise and compassionate approach allowed me to confront my deepest fears and doubts head-on. With her guidance, I was able to reconnect with my husband on a deeper level and rediscover the love we once had. This program taught me to trust my intuition and make decisions from a place of strength rather than fear. Now, our marriage is back on track, and I am eternally grateful for the support that led me here." 

- Annie

"I have to tell you, the Decision Experience Coaching program was a total game-changer for me! My marriage was like a sinking ship, and I had no clue what to do. But Cindy was like my angel! She helped me figure out my priorities and realize that I needed to leave for my own happiness and well-being. It wasn't easy, but with her support, I gained the courage to talk to my husband and begin separation but in a really gentle and loving way. And you know what? I felt so confident in my decision! It was really scary telling him what I wanted, but the moment I did, it was like this massive weight was lifted from my shoulders. Now I can finally move on and be true to myself and be a way better mother to my kids. This program rocks, seriously!"

- Sheryl

After the 12 week experience you WILL...

  • See your relationship for what it really is and be able to make the right decision for you without doubt and regret.
  • Experience inner peace, because you now have the clarity and the tools you need to take control of your life.
  • Have the self-awareness to understand what truly makes you happy in a romantic relationship.
  • Set loving boundaries to protect yourself from being disrespected, neglected, and stonewalled in your relationship.
  • Know how to have hard conversations because you now have the tools to navigate them compassionately and confidently.
  • Free yourself from the guilt, the fear and shame that kept you stuck in relationship ambivalence for so long and find the right path for you.

FAQ

More Client Love Letters

"Enrolling in the Decision Experience was the turning point in my life. I was paralyzed by the fear of making the wrong decision about my marriage, and it was taking a toll on my emotional well-being. The coaching sessions helped me uncover the underlying issues in my relationship and gave me the courage to address them constructively. I learned how to communicate effectively and advocate for my needs without feeling guilty. As a result, my partner and I have grown closer, and we are now navigating our future together with mutual understanding and respect. This program has been truly transformational for me."

- Alison

"I was very surprised that The Decision Experience saved my marriage when it was on the brink of ending. I was lost, not knowing if I should continue fighting for our relationship or let go and was definitely more in than out when I first met Cindy. This program taught me how to reflect on my values and priorities, helping me gain the clarity I needed to make a decision that honored me and what I actually wanted. Cindy was really supportive and her guidance got me to overcome my fears and take action that I wasn't taking with my wife. Now, she and I are rebuilding our marriage with a new commitment to each other and it feels so much better."

- Tim

"Enrolling in the Decision Experience was the turning point in my life. I was paralyzed by the fear of making the wrong decision about my marriage, and it was taking a toll on my emotional well-being. The coaching sessions helped me uncover the underlying issues in my relationship and gave me the courage to address them constructively. I learned how to communicate effectively and advocate for my needs without feeling guilty. As a result, my partner and I have grown closer, and we are now navigating our future together with mutual understanding and respect. This program has been truly transformational for me."

- Alison

"I was very surprised that The Decision Experience saved my marriage when it was on the brink of ending. I was lost, not knowing if I should continue fighting for our relationship or let go and was definitely more in than out when I first met Cindy. This program taught me how to reflect on my values and priorities, helping me gain the clarity I needed to make a decision that honored me and what I actually wanted. Cindy was really supportive and her guidance got me to overcome my fears and take action that I wasn't taking with my wife. Now, she and I are rebuilding our marriage with a new commitment to each other and it feels so much better."

- Tim