STAGE 01 - CONTEMPLATION

The Decision 

 

This program is 3 months of current SELF & RELATIONSHIP discovery, uncovering what isn't working in your relationship currently and what you have already done in an attempt to repair, plus taking a dive into what life could look like if you decided to separate.

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A hybrid of self-discovery, relationship coaching, tool/strategy learning, and separation preparation coaching.
Making the decision to get a divorce is

one of the most challenging things you will ever do. 

 

It is such a scary decision that many people stay for months, or even years, in an unhappy, even unhealthy, marriage just because they cannot make the decision whether to stay or go. 

We become consumed by so many “reasons” we cannot decide right now… the kids, our finances, our lifestyle, the opinion of family and friends, our fear of ending up alone… the list seems endless. And we often feel justified in those reasons keeping us where we are. 

Marriage counseling or therapy can help you figure yourself out and unpack your own patterns from childhood and how they are contributing to your situation and dysfunction in your marriage, but it only works if both parties are actually willing to commit and do the work.  

You cannot single-handedly save your marriage. A marriage is a partnership. Each of you is 100% responsible for your 50% of the relationship. 

If you have a situation where one of you has checked out while the other is bent on saving it, making any real progress in marriage counseling can be challenging.

What I do is different

 

It is not therapy. 

It’s not going to take you months and even years to figure out what you want to do about your life and how you want to get there. 

It’s going to take 90 Days. That’s it. 

And look, you don’t have to be ready to get a divorce to experience immediate benefits from working together. 90% of people who work with me in this capacity have no idea what they want to do. 

So not knowing is the BEST place to start.

A Unique Approach Designed Specifically for You

 

I offer a unique element to my practice called “Decision Coaching” that isn’t found anywhere else.

Modeled after my training at the Doherty Relationship Institute, my Decision Coaching approach is specifically designed to help you DECIDE what path your relationship should take that’s best for YOU.

Approaching the 4 Common Villains to Decision Making

 

The hardest part about making a decision is knowing that it needs to be made.

The problem is there are 4 Common Villians to Decision Making that are in the way. 

So how do we overcome these villains and make better choices? 

We can’t completely deactivate these biases, but we can learn how to counteract them, and I will show you how.

In The Decision Experience, I will show you my unique 4-Part Decision Making Process that will help you defeat the villains and boost your chances of getting where you want to go.

I want you to feel excited about the possibilities that lie ahead.
 
By investing in yourself this way, you've already taken the first step toward a happier future.
 

Whether that means to stay or go, wouldn’t you finally like to know?

What to expect...

 

We will create various, realistic scenarios to create a vision of either choice (stay or go) as well as consider the logistical, emotional and financial details and intricacies that would be involved making the decision to divorce.

Clarity & Confidence in Making a Decision 
 

My goal is to help guide you toward finding clarity around what direction you want your relationship to take that is right for you.

What you get...

Also included in enrollment:

+ 1:1 Guidance through “The Talk” Course Included: ($395 value)

How to Tell Your Spouse You Want a Divorce

35-min Coach-Led Video

Lifetime access to the replay & slide deck

Course Workbook & Journal

1:1 Coaching Prep for this conversation

+ Free attendance to any of Cindy’s group programs

+ On-call messaging support 

+ Professional referrals, templates, conversation starters and scripts, 

Workbook & journal

(for keeping your thoughts and emotions organized)

Why work with me?

Inside this experience, I offer...

Expertise

In pre-divorce relationship decision-making.

Knowledge

Of how to assess whether your relationship is “too good to leave” or “too bad to stay”.

Professional Understanding

Of the processes involved in divorce and what actions you could take now to prepare.

Support

An extremely high level of compassion, empathy and empowered support.

I use a comprehensive holistic approach that will teach you:

  • What to do & what to say.
  • When to do  & say it.
  • How to communicate your needs to your spouse/partner.

You will:

 

Experience Increased clarity around what you should do.

 

Become more confident in the direction you want your relationship to go.

 

Feel less stressed and afraid of the. unknown  

Become more prepared for the hard conversations.

 

Get a realistic sense of what divorce might look like for you.

Are you ready?

A short-term - 90 Day - goal-directed, action-oriented, strategy-based 1-1 coaching experience focussed on getting to a DECISION about the direction you want your relationship to take RIGHT NOW.

 

$2997

($3269 incl. Taxes & fees)

or 3 Equal Payments of $1195

(taxes & fees included in payment plan options)

Pay in Full
Payment Plan

In 90 Days, Our Goals Are:

To identify what happened to the relationship to get to this point.

To get super clear on what you WANT and how you want to FEEL.

To uncover your FEARS and identify what is really getting in the way of you being happy and where you are stuck.

To create a realistic snapshot of what life could look like if you divorced: emotionally, logistically, financially.

To pinpoint what would need to change or happen for you to stay in your relationship and be HAPPY.

To give you immediate STRATEGIES and techniques to try in your relationship right now to improve COMMUNICATION with your spouse, even if separation is the path you choose.

To really determine if your partner is someone you are aligned with and someone you can GROW WITH in the future.

To teach you practical ways to express your needs and RESOLVE CONFLICT during this time of uncertainty and indecision.

To teach your HOW to have the HARD CONVERSATIONS: what to say, when to say it.

To help you identify whether the TOP 4 MARRIAGE DESTROYERS are present in your relationship and what to do about it.

To get a real sense of how CO-PARENTING could work between two homes (if kids are involved).

To hold you ACCOUNTABLE for staying the course and keep you from falling off track.

To FREE you from the constant state of doubt, wondering and “WHAT IF”s.

To finally achieve CLARITY and CONFIDENCE about the direction you want your relationship to go.

We will focus on what you want to do NOW and HOW

 

to get you there so that in 90 Days, you can finally start to move forward with your life on YOUR TERMS, whether that means you stay or go.  

**SPACES ARE LIMITED IN 1-1 COACHING EXPERIENCES and often WAITLISTED.**

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