Is your relationship too good to leave, or not good enough to stay?

Break Free From The Ambivalence Trap: 

Get Clarity About The Future Of Your Relationship 

Find the answer to your most important questions once and for all and take control of your happiness!

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The Internal Push and Pull

Being stuck in an ambivalent relationship is one of the most exhausting, painful, and difficult situations people experience in their love lives…

Is my relationship too good to leave or not good enough to stay?

This big decision keeps many of us stuck in unhappy or unhealthy marriages for months or even years because we can't decide what the right choice is.

You’re overwhelmed by countless "reasons" that hinder your decision-making: the kids, finances, lifestyle, family and friends' opinions, fear of hurting them, or the worry of being alone. The list seems endless, and many of us often find validation in these reasons that keep us where we are.

Sometimes, you might secretly wish your partner would mess up, thinking it'll help you decide. But having no obvious reason to leave and still considering it, makes you feel even more confused.

The Internal Push and Pull

Being stuck in an ambivalent relationship is one of the most exhausting, painful, and difficult situations people experience in their love lives…

Is my relationship too good to leave or not good enough to stay?

This big decision keeps many of us stuck in unhappy or unhealthy marriages for months or even years because we can't decide what the right choice is.

You’re overwhelmed by countless "reasons" that hinder your decision-making: the kids, finances, lifestyle, family and friends' opinions, fear of hurting them, or the worry of being alone. The list seems endless, and many of us often find validation in these reasons that keep us where we are.

Sometimes, you might secretly wish your partner would mess up, thinking it'll help you decide. But having no obvious reason to leave and still considering it, makes you feel even more confused.

Your emotions are in limbo…

 

The feelings of confusion, frustration and resentment from both yourself and your partner are consuming you. 

You’re tired of being on a one-way street, feeling like you’re the only one putting effort into the relationship and keeping the family together. 

You imagine the relief a separation could bring, yet agonize over the fear of hurting your kids and losing the house, the comfort, and the lifestyle. 

The contradictory thoughts of whether you should stay and work things out, or leave and move on are consuming you.

 

However, deep down you know that something has to change

 

but the fear of making the wrong decision holds you back.

Your emotions are in limbo…

 

The feelings of confusion, frustration and resentment from both yourself and your partner are consuming you. 

You’re tired of being on a one-way street, feeling like you’re the only one putting effort into the relationship and keeping the family together. 

You imagine the relief a separation could bring, yet agonize over the fear of hurting your kids and losing the house, the comfort, and the lifestyle. 

The contradictory thoughts of whether you should stay and work things out, or leave and move on are consuming you.

 

However, deep down you know that something has to change

 

but the fear of making the wrong decision holds you back.

Over 40% of people in long-term relationships have considered leaving their partner at least once.

According to Psychology Today

Are you one of them?

Relationships are incredibly complex. And the truth is, even the strongest relationships go through tough times. 

When you’re stuck in an ambivalent relationship you can expect to experience both positive and negative emotions towards your partner at the same time. 

These confusing emotions can impact your physical and emotional well-being and the quality of your life. 

The stress, the guilt and the fear of the unknown make it extremely difficult to make a concrete decision about the future of your relationship.

You’re stuck.

Is this a sign that your relationship has run its course? And if so, what happens next? Or, can you overcome the ambivalence and nurture the relationship so it can flourish again? And if so, how?

To find the answers to these questions, you have to deeply understand your emotions, see your relationship for what it really is, and find strategies that help you make a choice free of regret.

And once you have profound clarity about what is right for you and what life you want to build for yourself, you’ll set yourself on a path towards a happier, healthier, and more fulfilling life.

I Was Stuck In Contemplation For 

5 Painstaking Years

I'm Cindy Stibbard, a woman who wears multiple hats:

A devoted mom, a resilient fighter, an ambitious visionary, a podcast host, speaker and multiple business owner, a loyal daughter, sister and friend, and a whole-hearted advocate for love, healthy relationships and emotional freedom.

I empathize and understand your emotions like they were my own… because they once were. I was trapped in a marriage that appeared picture-perfect to the world, but left me empty and feeling unseen, unheard and uncherished on the inside.

The yearning for emotional connection and the uncertainty in my relationship took a toll on me. I struggled between wanting change and fearing the unknown that would come if I were to walk away from my 22-year marriage. I was a stay-at-home mom without access to our finances. That was the life I knew… but not the life I truly desired.

For five long years, I felt stuck. I argued with my spouse, used alcohol to cope, took my kids for granted, surrounded myself with the wrong people, and tried everything to avoid facing the obvious…

My crumbling marriage. 

I desperately needed help, but who?

Therapists tried to encourage us to hang in there, but they didn't provide us with ways to determine if this marriage was fixable.

Lawyers, on the other hand, focused their efforts on tearing us apart.

Who could help me DECIDE what was right for me?

This type of support I couldn't find anywhere.

 

So that’s when i decided to create the support I needed when i was struggling to decide what to do. 

Dealing with relationship ambivalence can be extremely confusing, debilitating and full of fear, unpredictability, anger and heartache – especially when you feel you are all alone. 

That’s why I created…

The Decision Experience

A LIVE 12-week coaching EXPERIENCE designed to get you from stuck in relationship ambivalence to crystal clarity about whether you want to stay in your relationship and give it all you’ve got, OR whether it’s time to liberate two people to live new chapters on your own terms… this experience is designed to help you make confident decisions and create the life you truly want

…no matter which path you choose.

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The 5 Phases of The Decision Experience

YOU ReDefined

Many of us lose our sense of self and personal identity in a long-term relationship or marriage. That’s why in week 1-4 we delve deep into the exploration of who you really are, your unique approach to love and marriage, your essential needs, and the beliefs shaping your perspective on relationships.

Your Relationship

Weeks 5-7 are all about taking a relationship inventory and diagnostic measures to understand your relationship better. Together, we’ll uncover the reasons behind the uncertainty towards your partner and why there is lingering ambivalence, allowing you to see your relationship for what it really is and what is going on.

The Communication Culprits

In weeks 8 to 10, we're diving into communication - specifically the 4 marriage destroyers that lead to relationship breakdown. Communication is the one thing that can strengthen your bond, and help you navigate tough times smoothly, but it can also cause a lot of damage and distrust when done poorly. When you know how to communicate your needs, resolve conflict, how to set boundaries and how to ask for what you want, you’re on a path towards a better, happier, more peaceful life.

The Decision Dilemma

Everything you've been working on comes together here to guide you towards the decision that's best for you. By now, you will have a much clearer idea about whether your relationship can be repaired or if it's time to go separate ways. In week 11, you’ll get my proven 4-step process to conquer the 4 villains of making decisions so that you can finally become empowered to make your own decision. Confidently and without any regret.

The "Talk"

No matter what choice you make, you are still going to need to have some pretty important and difficult conversations in your relationship. It’s not going to take just one hard conversation. It’s going to take a few. In week 12, we cover a compassionate and highly effective approach to having the hard conversations that will help you guide the path you want your relationship to take. You’ll get easy-to-follow frameworks - what to say, when to say it, how to say it and where - so you can handle these hard conversations more confidently, resolve issues faster, and ultimately restore your inner balance.

Recommitting to your relationship with renewed love and energy

Recommitting to your relationship with renewed love and energy

OR

Starting a new chapter in your life, freeing both of you to find the happiness you deserve?

Starting a new chapter in your life, freeing both of you to find the happiness you deserve?

Here's how it works

12 LIVE GROUP COACHING CALLS

The Decision Experience is a virtual live group coaching experience where you get the chance to actively engage in open conversations, connect with others who share your experience, and begin to find the answers you crave.

PRIVATE 1:1 COACHING WITH ME

Some areas need more attention and support than others. That’s why I’m offering private coaching sessions during the 12-week experience for more tailored support based on your unique situation.

ULTIMATE SUPPORT IN A SAFE SPACE

You’re not alone on this journey. You’ll be surrounded by a community of like-minded people who understand, empathize and relate to what you are going through. Shared struggle can create the strongest connections.

PROVEN EXERCISES AND STRATEGIES

The insights and knowledge you gain from the program can be put into practice immediately, allowing you to witness positive change.

LIFETIME ACCESS TO ALL RESOURCES

Lifetime access to the call recordings and program resources so you can come back to them anytime you need help and feel stuck.

I WANT CLARITY

Here's how it works

12 LIVE GROUP COACHING CALLS

The Decision Experience is a virtual live group coaching experience where you get the chance to actively engage in open conversations, connect with others who share your experience, and begin to find the answers you crave.

PRIVATE 1:1 COACHING WITH ME

Some areas need more attention and support than others. That’s why I’m offering private coaching sessions during the 12-week experience for more tailored support based on your unique situation.

ULTIMATE SUPPORT IN A SAFE SPACE

You’re not alone on this journey. You’ll be surrounded by a community of like-minded people who understand, empathize and relate to what you are going through. Shared struggle can create the strongest connections.

PROVEN EXERCISES AND STRATEGIES

The insights and knowledge you gain from the program can be put into practice immediately, allowing you to witness positive change.

LIFETIME ACCESS TO ALL RESOURCES

Lifetime access to the call recordings and program resources so you can come back to them anytime you need help and feel stuck.

I WANT CLARITY

Client Love Letters

"Before enrolling in the Decision Experience, I felt completely lost and trapped in my failing marriage. The uncertainty and fear of making the wrong decision were consuming me. Thanks to Cindy’s guidance and support, I found clarity and understanding of my needs and desires. Today, I can proudly say that I have made a decision that aligns with who I am and what I want, and my marriage has become stronger because of it."

- Parveet

"I can't emphasize enough how the Decision Experience changed my life. I was stuck in a marriage filled with doubt and unhappiness, and I knew I needed to find the strength to end it. Cindy provided invaluable insights, guiding me through a methodical process to delve deep into my emotions and desires. Cindy encouraged me to face the hard truth and helped me come to terms with my decision to leave. I found the courage to have that difficult conversation with my wife, knowing with certainty that ending the relationship was the right decision for my future. Thanks to this program I feel much happier in my life and have even found a new relationship.”

- Alan

"Before enrolling in the Decision Experience, I felt completely lost and trapped in my failing marriage. The uncertainty and fear of making the wrong decision were consuming me. Thanks to Cindy’s guidance and support, I found clarity and understanding of my needs and desires. Today, I can proudly say that I have made a decision that aligns with who I am and what I want, and my marriage has become stronger because of it."

- Parveet

"I can't emphasize enough how the Decision Experience changed my life. I was stuck in a marriage filled with doubt and unhappiness, and I knew I needed to find the strength to end it. Cindy provided invaluable insights, guiding me through a methodical process to delve deep into my emotions and desires. Cindy encouraged me to face the hard truth and helped me come to terms with my decision to leave. I found the courage to have that difficult conversation with my wife, knowing with certainty that ending the relationship was the right decision for my future. Thanks to this program I feel much happier in my life and have even found a new relationship.”

- Alan

This workshop is for you if…

  • You have been contemplating leaving your partner, but the fear of making the wrong decision and facing the unknown alone keeps you stuck.

  • You’re already leaning towards a decision but want to understand what went wrong, and how you can approach it the right way.

  • Your partner is unsure about you, and you want to find out whether or not your relationship has a future.

  • You’re willing to work on yourself and see the truth in your relationship to become self-aware and make the right decision with confidence and compassion.

  • You’re tired of being in a lukewarm relationship and want a chance to be happier, create a life you love, and be in a relationship that makes you feel alive.

This workshop is NOT for you if…

  • You’re not willing to invest time, energy, or effort into your love life and don’t want to understand your own emotions.
  • You believe that love alone is enough for happiness, fulfillment, and respect to find their way back into your relationship.
  • You want me to wave a magic wand and make the decision for you. I can’t tell you what to do, but I can tell you what I know.

  • You’re convinced that your relationship uncertainty is solely your partner’s fault and that they’re the only problem.

  • You expect this to be a walk in the park and a quick fix. This program is designed to help you make a decision about your relationship’s future. That shouldn’t be taken lightly.

  • You’re not willing to invest time, energy, or effort into your love life and don’t want to understand your own emotions.
  • You believe that love alone is enough for happiness, fulfillment, and respect to find their way back into your relationship.
  • You want me to wave a magic wand and make the decision for you. I can’t tell you what to do, but I can tell you what I know.

  • You’re convinced that your relationship uncertainty is solely your partner’s fault and that they’re the only problem.

  • You expect this to be a walk in the park and a quick fix. This program is designed to help you make a decision about the future of your relationship. That shouldn’t be taken lightly.

You are in control. Always.

No matter how hard things may seem.

Make The Decision Experience 

YOUR Experience

  • 12 weekly live group coaching calls with Cindy (Value $4,740)
  • Two 60-minute one-on-one coaching sessions with Cindy each month during the program (Value $2,370)
  • Private WhatsApp access to Cindy for on-demand support when YOU need it most (Value $1,997)
  • Preliminary assessment via email questionnaire to understand your current situation (Value $197)
  • Action steps between calls tailored to your specific situation (Value $197)
  • Step-by-step decision-making process with powerful exercises and proven strategies (Value $497)
  • Lifetime access to all the resources and recordings (Value $497)
  • An exclusive and supportive community within a secure and confidential space 

 

Total Value of $10,989

Offered at just $2997


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  • 12 weekly live group coaching calls with Cindy (Value $4,740)
  • Step-by-step decision-making process with powerful exercises and proven strategies (Value $497)
  • Lifetime access to all the resources and recordings (Value $497)
  • An exclusive and supportive community within a secure and confidential space

 

Total Value of $6,326

Offered at just $1597


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More Client Love Letters

"I have to tell you, the Decision Experience Coaching program was a total game-changer for me! My marriage was like a sinking ship, and I had no clue what to do. But Cindy was like my angel! She helped me figure out my priorities and realize that I needed to leave for my own happiness and well-being. It wasn't easy, but with her support, I gained the courage to talk to my husband and begin separation but in a really gentle and loving way. And you know what? I felt so confident in my decision! It was really scary telling him what I wanted, but the moment I did, it was like this massive weight was lifted from my shoulders. Now I can finally move on and be true to myself and be a way better mother to my kids. This program rocks, seriously!"

- Sheryl

"I cannot express enough gratitude for the Decision Experience Coaching program. When I first started working with Cindy, my marriage was hanging by a thread, and I was desperate for answers. Her expertise and compassionate approach allowed me to confront my deepest fears and doubts head-on. With her guidance, I was able to reconnect with my husband on a deeper level and rediscover the love we once had. This program taught me to trust my intuition and make decisions from a place of strength rather than fear. Now, our marriage is back on track, and I am eternally grateful for the support that led me here." 

- Annie

"OMG, the Decision Experience was a total lifesaver! My marriage was like a bad rom-com, and I had to figure out if I should hit the exit button, you know what I mean? Cindy was awesome! She made me feel so comfortable, like chatting with a bestie, and helped me find the guts to end things with my spouse. And guess what? It was the right call, no regrets! Now, I'm feeling like a boss babe, taking charge of my life, and ready to embrace whatever comes my way. This program is the real deal!"

- Jill

"OMG, the Decision Experience was a total lifesaver! My marriage was like a bad rom-com, and I had to figure out if I should hit the exit button, you know what I mean? Cindy was awesome! She made me feel so comfortable, like chatting with a bestie, and helped me find the guts to end things with my spouse. And guess what? It was the right call, no regrets! Now, I'm feeling like a boss babe, taking charge of my life, and ready to embrace whatever comes my way. This program is the real deal!"

- Jill

"I cannot express enough gratitude for the Decision Experience Coaching program. When I first started working with Cindy, my marriage was hanging by a thread, and I was desperate for answers. Her expertise and compassionate approach allowed me to confront my deepest fears and doubts head-on. With her guidance, I was able to reconnect with my husband on a deeper level and rediscover the love we once had. This program taught me to trust my intuition and make decisions from a place of strength rather than fear. Now, our marriage is back on track, and I am eternally grateful for the support that led me here." 

- Annie

"I have to tell you, the Decision Experience Coaching program was a total game-changer for me! My marriage was like a sinking ship, and I had no clue what to do. But Cindy was like my angel! She helped me figure out my priorities and realize that I needed to leave for my own happiness and well-being. It wasn't easy, but with her support, I gained the courage to talk to my husband and begin separation but in a really gentle and loving way. And you know what? I felt so confident in my decision! It was really scary telling him what I wanted, but the moment I did, it was like this massive weight was lifted from my shoulders. Now I can finally move on and be true to myself and be a way better mother to my kids. This program rocks, seriously!"

- Sheryl

After the 12 week experience you'll...

  • See your relationship for what it really is and be able to make the right decision for you without doubt and regret.
  • Experience inner peace, because you now have the clarity and the tools you need to take control of your life.
  • Have the self-awareness to understand what truly makes you happy in a romantic relationship.
  • Set loving boundaries to protect yourself from being disrespected, neglected, and stonewalled in your relationship.
  • Know how to have hard conversations because you now have the tools to navigate them compassionately and confidently.
  • Free yourself from the guilt, the fear and shame that kept you stuck in relationship ambivalence for so long and find the right path for you.

Why now is the best time to take action

I’ve poured my heart into making The Decision Experience the best experience it can be for you. When I was unsure about my relationship’s future, I wished there was something like this that could have helped me. But there wasn’t. So I created the kind of support that I needed when I was going through this myself. 

Connecting with others going through the same journey creates powerful bonds of connection, empowerment, and healing. That's why, for the first time ever, I'm offering The Decision Experience as a LIVE group program.

This is the only time doors are open this year.

So if you want to feel different about your current situation, find the answer to your most pressing questions and gain clarity on whether your relationship can be saved or if it is time to call it quits, then this is for you.

Click the button below and take the first step toward a better, happier and more fulfilling life!

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More Client Love Letters

"Enrolling in the Decision Experience was the turning point in my life. I was paralyzed by the fear of making the wrong decision about my marriage, and it was taking a toll on my emotional well-being. The coaching sessions helped me uncover the underlying issues in my relationship and gave me the courage to address them constructively. I learned how to communicate effectively and advocate for my needs without feeling guilty. As a result, my partner and I have grown closer, and we are now navigating our future together with mutual understanding and respect. This program has been truly transformational for me."

- Alison

"I was very surprised that The Decision Experience saved my marriage when it was on the brink of ending. I was lost, not knowing if I should continue fighting for our relationship or let go and was definitely more in than out when I first met Cindy. This program taught me how to reflect on my values and priorities, helping me gain the clarity I needed to make a decision that honored me and what I actually wanted. Cindy was really supportive and her guidance got me to overcome my fears and take action that I wasn't taking with my wife. Now, she and I are rebuilding our marriage with a new commitment to each other and it feels so much better."

- Tim

"Enrolling in the Decision Experience was the turning point in my life. I was paralyzed by the fear of making the wrong decision about my marriage, and it was taking a toll on my emotional well-being. The coaching sessions helped me uncover the underlying issues in my relationship and gave me the courage to address them constructively. I learned how to communicate effectively and advocate for my needs without feeling guilty. As a result, my partner and I have grown closer, and we are now navigating our future together with mutual understanding and respect. This program has been truly transformational for me."

- Alison

"I was very surprised that The Decision Experience saved my marriage when it was on the brink of ending. I was lost, not knowing if I should continue fighting for our relationship or let go and was definitely more in than out when I first met Cindy. This program taught me how to reflect on my values and priorities, helping me gain the clarity I needed to make a decision that honored me and what I actually wanted. Cindy was really supportive and her guidance got me to overcome my fears and take action that I wasn't taking with my wife. Now, she and I are rebuilding our marriage with a new commitment to each other and it feels so much better."

- Tim

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